Who are you at the Holidays?

Have you guys seen this parody by Chris Fleming?  I like to watch it before the holidays because it shows me how ridiculous I can be when THE HOLIDAYS get here!  The holidays are supposed to be fun, adventurous, enjoyable and filled with family & cheer.  But too often its more like a showdown between one of the parents and all of the kids while they get ready for the celebrations.  

How do you guys remind yourselves to stay calm and cool during the holidays?  We'd love to hear your ideas!